Want to intrigue a man to capture his interest?

Then be a little more “playful” when talking to him.

Why is it that a playful response to a question, one that teases a little bit and delays the answer, yields greater fascination? 

Rather than offer the answer out right, allow me to guide your mind to the answer. 

Just imagine the following scenario. See if your mind naturally picks out the triggers of interest.

After pulling his sore feet from his ice skates, Jake glanced up again at the woman who had introduced herself as Judy, twice. 

He fought the urge to approach her again before leaving the rink, not wanting to come on too strong or appear too desperate. 

But it was all too convenient when Judy and her friend walked right in front of him, heading toward the exit. 

“Hey Judy, what are the chances of getting your phone number after forgetting your name in less than ten minutes?”

Now let’s make this a “choose your own adventure” article. (Yes, I know how cheesy that sounds, but I’m trying to be playful to set a good example).

And that brings me to an interesting aside. If you ever did read one of those corny “choose your own adventure” books as a kid, you may recall just how bad the content actually was. 

You couldn’t resist finishing one of those books despite the lousy writing, could you? 

The natural intrigue built into the engaging nature of those books was the ingredient that kept you reading. 

Hopefully Judy has more than just intrigue working in her favor, but let’s review her options.

Option one: Judy turns. With a pleasant smile she comments, “Oh, don’t worry about it. I forget names all the time.” Digging in her purse she produces a pen and a small scrap of paper, handing it to Jake.She suggests he call her next time he’s planning some time on the ice.[No playful intrigue]

Option two: Judy keeps walking several paces before half turning with a feigned look of innocent surprise on her face, “Oh Honey, were you talking to me? It’s Jessica, not Judy.” 

She allows a playful smile to slowly spread across her face…accompanied by an approving sparkle in her eye.She gives Jake a second to transition from shock to understanding as his mind quickly makes the jump.

Regaining his wits, Jake responds, “You’re cruel! I’m not sure if I want your number anymore.” He relaxes into a natural laugh. 

Judy turns to her friend for a moment, prolonging the now mutually enjoyable playfulness. “What do you think? Is he cute enough for me to give him my number after forgetting my name the second I told him?” 

Judy answers her own question as if her friend had already replied. “Yeah, you’re right. He doesn’t deserve my number. So he’ll have to beg me to friend him on Facebook. That is, if you can remember my first and last name long enough to send me a friend request.”

Option one is nice, just not intriguing. 

It lacks the playful tension that sparks interest and gives life to a relationship when it has just begun. 

Playfulness is not a technique. It’s not some kind of canned method you have to force your personality to fit with. Instead, think of playfulness as an attitude which takes unique expression from your personality. 

Play around with it, literally, and see if you don’t enjoy the banter and get better results along the way.

And speaking of better results, you owe it to yourself to learn the one thing men secretly want, but they could never ask for directly. 

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Confidence feels good.

Men will tell you it’s one of the most attractive qualities a woman can possess.

Confidence is King. This is a bold statement, yet it begs the question: Confident about what? 

Herein lies the problem. People give useless advice like, “Just be more confident.” What is that even supposed to mean? And how do you do it?

When you understand that confidence is a relative feeling, not a condition, you begin to learn that you can influence your own feelings of confidence. 

Learning how to manage your feelings (and the thoughts that drive them) is key. 

We are seeking a very specific end result -the feeling of confidence.However, this feeling comes about as the result of the way you perceive yourself, your world, and your goals.

Even though the goal is to increase your feeling of confidence, you cannot consciously control your feelings directly.

Fortunately, you can control your thoughts directly, which means you can use your thoughts to change the way you feel. 

True confidence means you like who you are, regardless of whether others are impressed with who you’ve chosen to be.

More than anything else in this world, you have power and influence over yourself.How does this power and influence manifest in your thought life? Does your internal dialogue reflect a truly loving embrace of yourself?

If you’re like many other women, the honest answer to this question will be “no.”Your internal critic most likely dominates many of the thoughts you hold about yourself.

But, it doesn’t have to be that way for you.When you think of how you treat yourself, and how you talk to yourself, ask yourself if you would ever treat your best friend that way. If the answer if no, why would you treat yourself that way? 

You are your own best friend, or at least you ought to be. Although you have the potential to be your own worst enemy, you must learn to choose not to be. To be successful in building your confidence, I want you to embrace the idea that it is okay to love yourself fiercely!

Loving yourself doesn’t mean you quit work and spend the day eating chocolate.True love embraces the whole person, both in their present form, and their future self.

Really loving yourself could mean taking a break, or it could mean taking a vacation.Really loving yourself could also mean making yourself go to the gym to work out even if you don’t feel like it. It’s about doing what will ultimately build your quality of life.

I challenge you to take a look within and answer this question: Are you loving yourself enough?

My experience has been that people who love themselves feel more confident. When you love yourself, you’re not afraid to see your own faults.Your imperfections don’t cause you to cringe and shut down your own thought processes to avoid the emotional pain of admitting you’re not a perfect person.

When you love yourself, you can see yourself as a whole person, flaws and all, and still fully accept yourself without any need to wear blinders.People who love themselves are generally better at loving others.

Here’s another condition for building confidence: Focus on enjoyment rather than “success.”

Your confidence will grow when you focus more on relationship experiences than on relationship outcomes.

On a first date, your primary concern becomes having fun and making it enjoyable for the other person too.This primary focus replaces the desire to impress the other person.

Wanting to impress the other person has more to do with the future of the relationship than it does the unfolding experience of the date itself.

The more you focus on future outcomes, the less confident you will feel.This is true in any area of life.

The more you focus on things in the future, the less control you have.The less control you have, the more insecure you feel.

To increase feelings of confidence, focus on what’s here and now. Focus on the experience of your interaction with people rather than making the right impression.

Stop and really think about this for a moment.What if you really and truly embrace this idea the next time you interact with a potential partner?Think about how free you would feel if you really let go of any control of future events.

Think about how easy it would be to be spontaneous and let your fun, relaxed side emerge if you really focused on appreciating the relationship interaction for what it is at the present moment.

You can do this!

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Men get preoccupied. Don’t confuse that with a loss of passion for the relationship he shares with you. 

Has this ever happened to you? 

You meet someone attractive and engaging. The spark of interest leads quickly to romantic attraction and mutual desire. 

There is a special connection the just feels right. It’s like you’re on the same wavelength. Then, he begins to withdraw. 

He seems to be pulling away. He’s preoccupied and seems to have no desire to share his inner thoughts with you the way he did before. 
During conversation, his responses reflect less attention to what you are saying. At the worst moments it can even seem as if you are alone while in his presence.

Why does this happen? Why do men so often seem to pull away after initially demonstrating the ability to connect with you in a genuine way?

This happens because men are wired differently when it comes to motivation. He is genetically designed to narrowly focus his attention on the most important “mission” at hand.

That doesn’t mean he stopped loving you. It means some other “mission” has temporarily distracted him. But here’s where things get messy.

Because he seems to be pulling away, your instincts tell you something is wrong. This naturally causes you to feel a bit insecure. It also brings up negative emotions that could lead you to be short with him and possibly even passive-aggressive.

Your emotional state is reflecting the underlying question, “Why are you doing this to me?”

Meanwhile, his emotional state carries this command: “Reduce distractions and focus on taking care of the problem that has come up.” And the key here is this. The “problem that has come up” most likely has nothing to do with you. 

Both genetics and environment have reinforced a tendency for men to be mission-minded. When a man’s mission is going well, he feels playful energy. During these times he will be emotionally engaged and genuinely interested in even the small details of your life.

The problem comes when he faces unusual difficulties that threaten the progress of one of his “missions” in life. 

Unlike women, men are less likely to consider a relationship as a mission. Relationships are the fun things you do when you’re not working on your mission.

So when storms arise at work, in his business, or in other goals he is pursuing, he will become very distracted. You may even get the feeling he is only spending time with you because he feels obligated to.

You may be a top priority in his life, but it won’t feel that way when he gets preoccupied with one of his missions. This is a common root cause of painful experiences for women who invest their lives in men.

So what can you do about this? 

You could hate men and choose to exclude them from your life. You could treat them like children and make fun of their inferior relationship skills. Or you could use this new insight to adapt in a way that gets you what you really want. 

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Here it is in a nutshell. When he begins to become distant, don’t show anger, frustration, or passive aggressive attempts to make him feel the same pain he’s creating in you. 

This will only serve to increase his certainty that the relationship will have to be set aside for now as he focuses on fixing the things that have gone wrong in one of his primary missions.

Instead, get him talking about the emotional impact of the difficulties he is facing. 

Men don’t do this as easily and naturally as women. As a result, he may experience a profound sense of relief at being able to talk about what is going on and how it makes him feel. 

Your gentle questions and patience will provide a form of “scaffolding” to allow him to reach a level of emotional expression that is just a tad higher than his current skill level for talking about feelings.

Don’t offer to fix anything. That is an emasculating behavior that may cause him to react to you in anger as if you just told him he is incompetent. Just ask him what he needs to focus on right now. 

When he starts talking about the circumstances rather than the feelings, just wait till he’s done and then ask why those circumstances are important to him.

Using the word “important,” conveys respect for the mission he’s on, which will cause him to see you as an ally rather than a tempting distraction he must avoid. Help him express his feelings and sort out the conflicts he may be experiencing internally. 

Next, give him space to work this out. 

He will return to you with full engagement and even greater commitment and interest if you give him time and continue to be emotionally supportive.

Meanwhile, women who don’t understand this secret of the male mind will be pushing their man away with increasing displays of negative emotion. He will have very little tolerance for negative emotion when he feels his focus needs to be elsewhere. 

Many otherwise wonderful relationships have ended this way. Don’t let it happen to you.

Instead, be the woman who amazes him. Get inside his head and become irreplaceable as the one person in his life who seems to support him and understand him when he needs it most.

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Do you know the difference between “broadcast” flirting and “exclusive” flirting?

Broadcast flirting is on display for everyone to see.

When a woman uses broadcast flirting, everyone around can see what she’s up to.

For example, it’s broadcast flirting when Debbie laughs at all of Daniel’s jokes at the office party and purposefully compliments him in front of others. Exclusive flirting is different.

Think of it like an exclusive club.

There are only two people in the club, and the two people share something exclusive. You may think of yourself as someone who would never use flirting as an attraction tool, maybe because of the potential for embarrassment or a distaste for acting like someone you’re not.

But that’s because you think of all flirting as broadcast flirting.

Broadcast flirting dominates our perception of flirting because it’s what we see most often.

Exclusive flirting is different. It happens behind the scenes.

It’s far more subtle, and in my opinion more effective.

Let’s take a look at two examples of exclusive flirting.

One of the qualities of exclusive flirting is leverage.

One-on-one with your man, the smallest gesture feels magnified in significance. Let’s look at an example.

I’ll never forget the impact of a girl I had a deep respect for in high school.

Her name was Cindy.

We were both eighteen.

We had a lot in common, but we did not have the same group of friends.

We basically ignored each other.

Then one day she changed everything.

There was this girl, Angie, who shared my last name (no relation), and our lockers were side-by-side.

She and her boyfriend liked to make out for the entire five minutes between every period throughout the school day.

I was just asking them to scoot over a few inches so I could close my locker door when Cindy walked up and slipped a note into my locker.

She glanced at me, but without much expression on her face, and continued on her way.

For a second I stood there, trying to resist the urge to grab the note and read it right away.

I managed to tuck the note in my pocket instead, and walk to class as if nothing interesting had happened.

Of course, no one cared about my feigned nonchalance but me.

She was so subtle that I was probably the only one who really noticed.

Well, me, Angie, and her slobber buddy.

Anyway, I got to class with enough time to open the note and read it before class started.

It was a simple message.

She mentioned a few things she had noticed about me.

She paid me a few compliments and told me she admired the way I handled certain things.

That was it.

There was no fanfare or drama, just a simple compliment.

It was up to me if I wanted to imagine the implication of an invisible “check this box if you want to go out with me” clause.

As I passed her in the hall during the next few days, she was just chatting with her group of friends as usual.

But on a few occasions she was walking the opposite direction in the crowded hall as we passed each other.

Without her friends around she locked eyes with me for just a second or two before we both passed silently on our way.

I did not ignore this gesture, in case you were wondering, but the rest of the story is not relevant to my point today.

I just wanted to share an example of exclusive flirting.

The whole thing would have felt far less magical to me if it involved a lot of staring across the lunch room with girlfriends giggling beside her… followed by a dramatic presentation of a note by her chosen crony… who would deliver it in a way that guaranteed a few elbows in my side from several of my buddies.

That would have been broadcast flirting.

There’s nothing exclusive about it.

It makes the relationship into a soap opera that everyone (strangely) thinks they have ownership in.

I know… you’re not in high school anymore.

I get it.

So here’s a grown-up example.

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One of the principles you’ll learn from my concise report on flirting skills is this.

Flirting is nothing more than an expression of interest.

Flirting is the language of interest.

A friend of mine used to work in a nursing home as a recreational director.

She told me the unfolding saga of two employees who worked there.

One was an assistant in her department, and the other was the head of the maintenance department.

The assistant had a huge crush on the maintenance guy.

But the only reason my friend knew about it was because the assistant bashfully asked if she would get in trouble for flirting with a fellow employee at work.

After that, they just seemed to become a couple.

My friend had to ask what happened because she never saw any indication of flirting.

Here’s what happened.

The assistant simply showed interest by paying attention to him.

She started by asking about some of his work related routines.

She spaced out her expressions of interest, allowing him to warm up to her.

She would usually only approach him when he was working alone in the hallway, or as she passed him outside the building on her way in.

She would only pause for thirty seconds or so, but she was consistent in demonstrating interest each time she ran into him.

Then she made a move that allowed her to shift her flirting to another level.

After complimenting him about the breadth of his knowledge about maintenance related issues, she asked if he would be horribly offended by the idea of giving her his phone number in case she ran into a problem he could advise her about outside of work.

Now she had an avenue that made exclusive flirting easy.

He was a few years older than her, and texting was not something he had gotten used to.

She got him used to it.

He came to enjoy her text-based friendship and eventually asked her out.

One of my preferred strategies described in my concise flirting report is focused on finding an avenue that makes exclusive flirting easier.

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Till next time

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There are two common reasons a woman asks this question. 

I can tell you a lot about your relationship depending on which reason is behind your question.

It’s normal to get a pit-of-the-stomach nervous feeling when you think about committing your life to someone.

Big decisions create nervous feelings even when you’re about to make the right choice. 

On the other hand, emotions should not be ignored. They are sometimes trying to tell us something. 

Emotions often alert us about things we know on an intuitive level but which we do not want to recognize as the truth.

How do you know the difference? How do you know the difference between normal nervousness from a big decision versus gut level instincts telling you to turn a different direction?

The best way to distinguish between these feelings is by asking yourself the following question. “Do I feel lonely when I spend time alone with him?” 

If you do, the connection at the deepest level either never took root, or died off as you learned more about each other over time. 

If you feel yourself longing to get out and be around other people when spending time with him, he’s not the one.

Now let’s turn to the other reason this question comes up.

As a dating and relationship coach, I frequently receive questions from women who notice their boyfriend or husband has become less romantic over time.

A change in emotional intensity is normal as a relationship matures. Your relationship will naturally shift through several stages.

As the relationship matures, the “romantic stage” comes to an end. Some women are sad or fearful during this shift because they wonder if his interest is dissipating. You may wonder if he intends to invest in you and treat you well in a long-term relationship.

Take comfort. The level of energy required for the romantic phase of a relationship cannot and should not realistically continue indefinitely. 

For the two of you to become true life partners, the passion should always remain, but the expression of that love and passion will change as the relationship deepens. 

Flowers, chocolates, and showing up unexpectedly as you leave work are fun, but this level of romance often precedes a phase of the relationship that involves a sense of “mutual ownership.” 

In the, “mutual ownership” phase you move away from trying to impress each other. You move toward a feeling that the relationship is something you both own and feel secure in. He becomes comfortable in your presence and feels he can really be himself. 

This could mean he flips on the TV and puts his feet up in your apartment rather than spending every moment of his visit following you around like a puppy. 

If he is still treating you with deep respect and showing a continued interest in sharing his life with you, there’s no reason to bolt. You’ve probably found a good match. 

If you’ve decided to invest your lives in each other, there’s something you should know. Love is never enough for a man. 

There’s a missing ingredient if you plan to keep his love and commitment forever.

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It’s a painful experience to be deeply connected with a man, only to find him pulling away and losing interest.

Have you ever been with a man who seemed to really like you, only to begin distancing himself and saying he really wasn’t ready for a commitment? 

Why is it that he ends up marrying the next woman he dates? Was he lying when he said he wasn’t ready for a commitment? 

The answer comes down to deep emotional attraction. 

In all likelihood, he was not lying when he said he wasn’t ready for a commitment. In fact, unlike women, a man’s default mode is that he is not ready for (or even looking for) a commitment.  

It takes a special kind of deep emotional attraction for a man to feel compelled to keep a woman in his life with a shared promise of committed intentions for the future. 

What creates that intense emotional bond for men?

I can tell you one thing for certain. Men experience relationships for what they are here and now, in the present moment.This is a stereotype, but because there is so much truth in it you would be foolish to ignore its implications for your relationship. 

Research with men and women in the early stages of dating relationships has shown that women typically consider themselves to be “in a relationship” by the time the third date rolls around.

In contrast, men do not consider themselves to be “in a relationship” until several months of exclusive dating have occurred. 

Even when he’s exclusively dating one woman, a man will be surprised when his counterpart suggests the relationship is exclusive. Why is that?

Again, it comes back to the fact that men tend to spend less time plotting and planning the course of their lives in terms of relationships. Men do not define their lives (as much) by where things seem to be going in a relationship.

For your man to reach a point where he desires a committed relationship, something very significant must occur first. 

He must experience an intense emotional attraction that causes him to feel less alive when he is not in your presence. 

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Think of the last guy who really flaked on you. What did he do?

1. Didn’t text/call you back.
2. Disappeared on you.
3. Didn’t show up for a date.

These days, it’s common for someone to vanish off the face of the earth, whether it’s ghosting (in which he disappears for good) or zombie-ing (where he disappears unexpectedly, only to pop back in your life like nothing happened).

Despite the increase in flaky behavior, it’s still rare that a guy would arrange a date with you, and then simply not show up.

(Even he knows he’d better text you if he’s going to cancel!)

That gives you a clue about the best way to deal with flaky behavior in guys.

WHY GUYS FLAKE

You might think that everyone knows right from wrong…

And surely these guys should have learned better behavior…

But what’s normal today isn’t what was normal even 10 years ago.

Technology has changed the way we interact. New norms are being created all the time.

Maybe you remember the days when you went out to dinner with friends and had their full attention the entire time. Now everyone dips in and out of the conversation, because their attention keeps getting hooked by their phones.

It’s not polite to check your phone when you’re supposed to be spending quality time with friends, but everyone does it, so how bad can it be?

That’s what he’s thinking, too.

“Everyone” is a bit flaky these days. Even women. So he thinks, “Why should I be held to a higher standard of behavior than everyone else?”

YOU TRAIN HIM HOW TO TREAT YOU

Judging him for being flaky when he really isn’t any flakier than anyone else isn’t fair.

What IS fair is letting him know what you expect.

The more you get to know someone, the more you find out what’s important to them. For example, you may be pretty casual about time, while it annoys him to have to wait for you.

It would not be fair if you had only just met and he wrote you off for showing up late. But it would be appropriate if he decided not to pursue a relationship after he’d let you know how important punctuality is for him…

And you kept ignoring that.

We have to let people know what behaviors aren’t okay for us. Not as a way of judging them, but as a way of establishing healthy boundaries.

If he doesn’t know what your expectations are, you can’t blame him for not meeting them.

MAKE MORE DATES

There’s one situation in which most guys are going to think twice about being flaky:

When you’ve planned to meet up for a date.

He knows it’s going to cause you a lot of inconvenience if he’s a no-show. You’d probably even dump him.

That’s why I urge women to make more dates.

Use electronic communication to arrange a date, then keep everything else until you’re face-to-face.

This tip can transform your love life. Not just because he realizes he has to make an effort with you—he can’t text occasionally and assume that’s enough—but also because all that in-person contact activates two powerful forces on his behavior:

1. The Exposure Effect
2. Loss Aversion

He’ll find himself more and more committed to you, without even realizing it’s happening. Here’s how it works…

HE CAN’T HELP FALLING FOR YOU

The Exposure Effect is a foundational principle of interpersonal attraction. The more exposure you have to someone, the more attractive you find them.

Basically, we love what’s familiar to us. We’re more likely to pick what’s familiar than what’s unfamiliar, even if the other option is better.

A man who sees one woman several times a week—perhaps because they work in the same office—will feel more drawn to her than an even more amazing woman he only sees occasionally.

The next factor, loss aversion, is also known as the sunk cost bias. Simply put, it means we don’t like to lose anything we’ve invested a lot into.

Clearing time from your schedule to see someone is a big investment. When he’s with you, he can’t be doing anything else.

But texting or messaging you is low investment. He can do it while he’s at work or with friends.

Loss aversion gets activated when he feels like he’s invested in you. If he starts over with someone new, he’ll have lost all that time and energy he put into you.

So use these two forces to your advantage.

Get offline and meet up with him. Save the cute comments you’d normally text until you can share them in person.

You may just find that guys aren’t as flaky as you thought they were. They’re perfect gentlemen … as long as you’re face-to-face.

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Hey, it’s clife30.

Today I’m going to remind you of something you already know. Something important but easily forgotten. Something that tugs at a man’s heart.

They are the things that make you smile when you think of him. The things that made you fall in love with him.
They were there when you first met him. That’s why you said yes when he asked you out.
They are the things hidden in his heart that you admire, appreciate and trust. It’s a beautiful thing when you first recognize those gems in his character.

Basically, that’s what falling in love is. It’s seeing into another person’s heart and desiring what you find there.

But then you hit a snag.

When we first begin a relationship with someone, we’re attracted to the possibility of what the relationship could become. It’s an exciting new adventure.

As that possibility becomes a reality, it’s intoxicating… for a while. And then the intoxication seems to fade.
Usually, it fades for one person sooner than it does for the other person. And it fades because you get used to the things that initially made your partner seem special.

When that magical feeling becomes an everyday feeling, it’s easy to stop looking for potential in your partner. Instead, you fixate on the ways he’s different from you, the things you don’t like. And you can easily forget all about the things that initially attracted you to him.

In a long-term relationship, it’s normal for the feelings of infatuation to come and go. When feelings of infatuation are low, you stop fixating on the things you find attractive about him. You see him as a normal person. The sense that he’s “perfect” reveals itself to be an illusion.

When that illusion breaks, the magic withers and some relationships die.
If that’s happened to you, I have some good news. Recovering that special connection isn’t all that difficult.

If you want the best relationship possible, in the beginning and for the long-haul, take this advice. Keep on looking for the qualities in him you most enjoy, desire and respect. Finding them once isn’t enough. Trust me, if you don’t keep looking for them, you’ll forget about them.

And then something terrible happens. Problems become the focus of the relationship. And that slowly poisons the magic of your romantic connection.

So never stop looking for what’s good in the relationship, and in him. Search the mind and heart of your partner diligently and often. And when you see something beautiful in him, acknowledge it out loud. Let him know you appreciate him.

When you do that, two things happen.

First, as you rediscover the things in him that resonate with you, you’ll feel the electric excitement of possibility all over again. You’ll feel alive. You’ll feel desire, and you’ll want to follow that feeling on a journey that brings you closer to him again and again.

He’ll sense that positive energy in you and be attracted to it.

And here’s the second thing that will happen.

You’ll also be encouraging him to show you more of the qualities that made you fall in love with him in the first place. Usually, those are the same qualities that make him feel happy and fully alive. So it’s like you bring out the best in him when you look for what you like.

And here’s the magic that seals the deal…

He will like the version of himself that he finds in your presence. And that will make himwant to spend more time with you.

You will essentially reawaken and reinforce the special qualities that cause attraction between the two of you.
If you do this from the beginning of a relationship, you’ll not only keep the flames of passion burning hot, but you’ll build a more solid foundation, as well.

What it comes down to is this. No matter how strong the initial magic feels, loving someone is a choice. So choose to love the best you can find in him. Don’t let frustration or setbacks become the focus of your attention.

Everything you fell in love with is still there, hidden in his heart. Seek it out, and never stop telling him what you find.